gesa’s avatargesa’s Twitter Archive—№ 44,811

      1. What’s proper form when someone you cared about deeply and shaped you into the bad person you were before you became a good person dies? Do I go to a funeral full of people I’ve been avoiding for 17 years just because I loved him?
    1. …in reply to @gesa
      I don’t have a playbook here but I’m feeling so very lost and I did care about him so very much and he taught so very many things.
  1. …in reply to @gesa
    y’all are giving fantastic advice, and I truly appreciate it. Said advice is making me realize that I might *want* that community I’ve been avoiding for 17 years to mourn with, if only for one day.