gesa’s avatargesa’s Twitter Archive—№ 53,066

  1. The holidays are hard on a lot of people for a lot of reasons, reasons that may not always be obvious. That doesn’t mean anyone should tamp down their celebrations. It does mean use caution not to pressure people to participate, avoid invitations that could invoke guilt.
    1. …in reply to @gesa
      Not “when are you going to make it out of your cave” or “pleeeeeease come” but “I’d love to see you. I understand if you can’t make it. I miss you.” You won’t always know which friends are weeping into their pillows or numbly staring into space, offer grace indiscriminately.